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Meaning
The quote says people often expect exceptional partners or experiences while not holding themselves to the same standard. It suggests that wanting something remarkable should be matched by becoming a more remarkable person. The message is a call for self-improvement and consistency between desire and character.
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Original Language & Translation
Originally said in English.
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About Matthew Hussey
British author, dating coach and YouTuber
Matthew Hussey is a British author, dating coach and YouTuber known for books and advice about relationships. He has 101 quotes on the site. He is especially known for Get the Guy, published in 2013, and for Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily, published in 2024. His work focuses on dating and relationships, especially on helping readers think more clearly about standards, connection, and finding a partner.
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