A biography for Matthew Husseyhasn’t been written yet.
“Too many women are being chosen by men that they don't choose.”
“You have to connect on emotion not logic. People go on dates and it becomes a CV exercise. Logic is someone asking 'what do you do for a job?' when you should ask 'why do you do that? What is it you enjoy?'”
“Life isn't easy but it's not as complicated as we make it out to be.”
“People don't want to be put on the spot over whether or not they like you, they want to come to that conclusion themselves. It's ok to let someone know you're interested, but there's no need to go any further than that.”
“You know he's invested when he doesn't treat his 'friend time' and 'girlfriend time' as mutually exclusive.”
“It's powerful for a guy to know your exes have regrets.”
“If he wants you over for the holidays or can't wait for you to have dinner with his buddies, it's a sign he wants them to love you as much as he does.”
“The truth is men like women who are challenging, and set them standards to live up too. Caveat: This doesn't mean he wants someone to neurotically pick at everything all the time.”
“I honestly believe there is nothing more important in a person's life than love and I want to show women how to have fun and get the best out of dating.”
“Your Friday and Saturday nights are sacred. When a new guy asks for a prime-time date early on, suggest drinks and make him the warm-up.”
“I have strong views, and I can't imagine not ever being honest about those views.”
“With any form of change, it's kind of like you're dislodging something. Once you've done it a little bit, you can open the floodgates.”
“Speaking from personal experience, if someone asked me on a date, I would still want to pay.”
“You'd never be able to appreciate what's good in life if you've never experienced the bad.”
“The thing that actually makes a guy settle down is when a woman comes along who has a different set of standards than the other women he's met. Then she immediately becomes unique.”
“Here's the truth that everyone misses - you must not invest in a guy based on how much you like him. You have to invest in a guy based on how much he invests in you.”
“Halloween might be a time that's renowned for ghosts, but we no longer experience ghosts only on Halloween. In our dating lives, we are now used to being 'ghosted' the whole year round.”
“If you're in business and you make a sales call and that lead doesn't buy from you, you don't sit there all day mourning the loss of that lead. You go out there and make 10 more sales calls!”
“Women are conditioned to believe Prince Charming is going to come and sweep them off their feet.”
“Firstly, there is no perfect man. Looking for that it worse than starting the race badly, it means you're in the wrong race. What women should be searching for is their ideal man - i.e. the one whose values, beliefs and outlook on life synergise with their own.”