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This is a sharply ironic way of saying that neither first impressions nor later disappointment gives the full truth. It can be read as a joke about marriage, but also as a wider comment on how people are idealized before commitment and judged more soberly after daily life sets in. It lands in conversations about romance, when fantasy and reality have both had their say.
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About H. L. Mencken
American journalist, essayist, satirist, and cultural critic
H. L. Mencken was an American journalist, essayist, satirist, cultural critic, and scholar of American English. He wrote in the early twentieth century and became known for sharp, combative prose and commentary. Mencken wrote widely on literature, music, prominent politicians, and the cultural movements of his day. His satirical coverage of the Scopes trial, which he called the "Monkey Trial," brought him wider notice. The word Menckenian entered dictionaries as a label for things associated with him, including his rhetorical style.
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1919