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The quote argues that disagreement with a young woman's choices should not be mistaken for proof that she lacked control over them. It distinguishes between disapproval and denial of a person's autonomy. The speaker is insisting that women can make their own decisions even when others think those decisions are wrong.
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About Roxane Gay
American writer, professor, editor, and social commentator
Roxane Gay is an American writer, professor, editor, and social commentator. She is known for essays, fiction, memoir, and public commentary, and for books including Bad Feminist, Ayiti, An Untamed State, Difficult Women, and Hunger. Her work spans criticism and creative writing, with Bad Feminist becoming a New York Times best seller. Across her books, she writes about culture, identity, gender, and the pressures of contemporary life, moving between personal reflection and sharper social critique.
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Books by Roxane Gay
Hunger
2017
Not that bad
2018