“After all, what is your host's purpose in having a party? Surely not for you to enjoy yourself; if that were their sole purpose, they'd have simply sent champagne and women over to your place by taxi.”

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This reads as a jokingly cynical view of hospitality, where the party is not really about the guest’s pleasure. It points to the social contract of entertaining, with all its vanity, obligation, and performance, and it turns the idea of generosity into a comic exaggeration. It lands in a room full of guests when someone is mocking the polite fiction that every host is being purely selfless.

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About P. J. O'Rourke

American author, journalist, and political satirist

P. J. O'Rourke was an American author, journalist, and political satirist. He wrote on politics and on subjects as varied as cars, etiquette, and economics, and 481 quotes are listed on the site. He published twenty-two books. Among them, Parliament of Whores and Give War a Chance both reached No. 1 on The New York Times bestseller list. His work is associated with sharp political satire and wide-ranging social commentary.

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