“We are loved way more by some of the people who have not contacted us in the last twelve or so months than we are loved by some of those who contact us every twelve or so days … or hours.”

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This reads as a dry correction to the way constant contact can be mistaken for care. It points to the quieter, steadier affection that does not announce itself often, and can land when someone realizes that attention is not the same as depth, especially after comparing a noisy relationship with a distant but genuinely supportive one.

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About Mokokoma Mokhonoana

Mokokoma Mokhonoana is a South African writer and public speaker. She is best known for her work exploring themes of resilience, identity, and the Black female experience in contemporary Africa, blending memoir, fiction, and cultural critique. Her writing often centers on navigating personal and societal challenges with wit and depth.

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