“The older you get, the easier it is for you to distinguish between your friends and people you are not seeing for the first time.”

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This reads as a comment on how familiarity becomes easier to read with time. It points to a shift in judgment, where a real friend stands out more clearly from someone you only know in passing. It lands in ordinary adult life, when the casual, the familiar, and the genuinely close start to feel very different.

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About Mokokoma Mokhonoana

Mokokoma Mokhonoana is a South African writer and public speaker. She is best known for her work exploring themes of resilience, identity, and the Black female experience in contemporary Africa, blending memoir, fiction, and cultural critique. Her writing often centers on navigating personal and societal challenges with wit and depth.

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