“He was ugly, himself. Weird-ugly. But ugliness in a man doesn't matter, much. Ugliness in a woman is her life.”

Share & Save

Meaning

The quote argues that a man's appearance is often treated as less important, while a woman's appearance can shape how others judge her entire life. It also points to a double standard where the same ugliness is given different meaning depending on gender. The wording suggests bitterness about how harshly women are assessed by looks.

When It Was Said

Not documented yet.

Who It Was Said To

Not documented yet.

Historical Context

Not documented yet.

Source

Faithless: Tales of Transgression (2009)

Original Language & Translation

Originally said in English.

Did They Really Say It?

The phrase appears in the book "Faithless: Tales of Transgression (2009)" by Joyce Carol Oates (Google Books snippet); no earlier source was checked.

Did You Know?

Not documented yet.

About Joyce Carol Oates

American writer

Joyce Carol Oates is an American writer. Since her first book appeared in 1963, she has published 58 novels, along with plays, novellas, short stories, poetry, and nonfiction. Her work has received wide recognition. Her novel Them won the National Book Award in 1969, and Black Water, What I Lived For, Blonde, and the short story collection Lovely, Dark, Deep: Stories were all finalists for the Pulitzer Prize. She has also received two O. Henry Awards, the National Humanities Medal, and the Jerusalem Prize in 2019.

More from Joyce Carol Oates (203 quotes) →

READ THE SOURCE

Books by Joyce Carol Oates

My Sister, My Love

2008

VIEW ON AMAZON

Blonde

2000

VIEW ON AMAZON

I'll Take You There

2003

VIEW ON AMAZON

The Falls

2005

VIEW ON AMAZON

Zombie

1996

VIEW ON AMAZON