“A man's real life is that accorded to him in the thoughts of other men by reason of respect or natural love.”

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Meaning

The quote says a person's true life is shaped not only by private experience, but also by how others hold them in mind. Respect and affection from other people give that life its real standing. It suggests that social recognition and love help define who someone is.

When It Was Said

1911

Who It Was Said To

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Source

Pt. I

Original Language & Translation

Originally said in English.

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Listed in the "Quotes > Under Western Eyes (1911)" section with citation "Pt. I".

About Joseph Conrad

Polish-British novelist and short story writer

Joseph Conrad was a Polish-British novelist and short story writer. He became one of the major figures in English-language fiction, even though he did not speak English fluently until his twenties. He is remembered for the force and style of his prose, and for bringing a non-English perspective into English literature. His work helped shape modern literary fiction through its precision, atmosphere, and distinctive narrative voice.

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