“There were things I wanted to tell him. But I knew they would hurt him. So I buried them, and let them hurt me.”

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The speaker is holding back painful truths to protect another person from hurt. In doing so, the speaker ends up carrying that pain alone. The quote suggests that silence can be an act of care, but also of self-sacrifice.

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2005

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Originally said in English.

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About Jonathan Safran Foer

American novelist

Jonathan Safran Foer is an American novelist and writer. He is associated with contemporary American fiction and has 239 quotes on the site. He is known for the novels Everything Is Illuminated, Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close, and Here I Am, as well as the non-fiction works Eating Animals and We Are the Weather: Saving the Planet Begins at Breakfast. He also teaches creative writing at New York University. His writing often moves between fiction and nonfiction, with attention to family, memory, and environmental concern.

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Books by Jonathan Safran Foer

Everything Is Illuminated

2003

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Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close

2006

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Here I Am

2017

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Eating animals

2009

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