“It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don't expect me to change.”

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The speaker says criticism is allowed and will be heard, but not necessarily acted on. It draws a line between listening to others and changing oneself in response. The quote emphasizes accountability without promising agreement or reform.

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About John Irving

American and Canadian novelist, short story writer, and screenwriter

John Winslow Irving is an American and Canadian novelist, short story writer, and screenwriter. He is known for fiction that moves between the two countries and for a body of work that has reached readers beyond the page through film and adaptation. Irving writes across novels, short fiction, and screenplays, with a career shaped by both American and Canadian identity. His work is closely associated with storytelling that is broad in scope and attentive to character, family, and the often complicated turns of ordinary life.

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A Prayer for Owen Meany

1989

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In One Person

2013

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