“I have a tendency to coddle my sons because I want to keep them safe, but I also want them to be strong and independent and curious and bold, and I worry that my coddling is going to have exactly the opposite effect.”

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This points to the uneasy balance between protection and overprotection in parenting. It can be read as a self-aware worry that good intentions can blur into smothering, leaving children less resilient rather than more. The line lands when a parent realises that helping too much can quietly limit the confidence they want to build.

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About Jennifer Egan

American novelist and short-story writer

Jennifer Egan is an American novelist and short-story writer. She is best known for her fiction, especially the novel A Visit from the Goon Squad, which won the 2011 Pulitzer Prize for Fiction and the National Book Critics Circle Award for fiction. From 2018 to 2020, Egan served as president of PEN America. Her reputation rests on fiction and on work that has earned major literary recognition.

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A Visit from the Goon Squad

2010

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Manhattan Beach

2017

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The Invisible Circus

1994

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The Candy House

2022

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The Keep

2006

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