“My grandmother and my mother were both told to stop working and take an anonymous role in society when they got married. Their usefulness had other uses now, they were told. Those days are very much over.”

Meaning

This reads as a rejection of the old expectation that marriage should erase a woman’s public identity. It points to a change in social norms, and to the idea that a woman’s work and usefulness do not end when she marries. It lands in a discussion about family history, where past limits are named plainly and set against present freedom.

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Original Language & Translation

Originally said in English.

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