“You know it makes one feel rather good deciding not to be a bitch. It's sort of what we have instead of God.”

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Meaning

The speaker is saying that choosing kindness or restraint can feel morally satisfying. The line suggests that, for some people, this small act of self-control can serve as a substitute for religious faith or moral certainty.

When It Was Said

1926

Who It Was Said To

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Historical Context

Lady Brett Ashley says this to Jake Barnes in Book 3, Ch. 19.

Source

Lady Brett Ashley to Jake Barnes, in Book 3, Ch. 19

Original Language & Translation

Originally said in English.

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Cited with a source on Wikiquote: Lady Brett Ashley to Jake Barnes, in Book 3, Ch. 19.

About Ernest Hemingway

American novelist, short-story writer, and journalist

Ernest Hemingway was an American novelist, short-story writer, and journalist. His work belongs to the 20th century, and he is widely known for a spare, understated style that shaped later writers. He has 257 quotes on the site. He wrote seven novels, six short-story collections, and two works of nonfiction, several of which became classics of American literature. He was also known for an adventurous public image and a blunt, outspoken manner, and he received the 1954 Nobel Prize in Literature.

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