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This points to the difference between affection and self-interest. It reads as a warning that if love depends only on comfort, praise, or usefulness, then the feeling is really self-regard in disguise. It lands in friendships or relationships that become conditional, where care disappears as soon as the other person stops being convenient.
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About Criss Jami
Criss Jami is an American poet and author. His work often explores themes of mental health, resilience, and the human condition, blending raw honesty with poetic intensity. Known for his unflinching self-reflection, his writing resonates with those navigating struggle and self-discovery.
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