“I suggest you forget about forgiveness for now and strive for acceptance instead. Accept that the man you love was unfaithful to you. Accept that the woman you once held in regard treated you with disrespect. Accept that their actions hurt you deeply. Accept that this experience taught you something you didn't want to know. Accept that sorrow and strife are a part of even a joyful life. Accept that it's going to take a long time for you to get that monster out of your chest. Accept that someday what pains you now will surely pain you less.”

American writer and podcast host

Cheryl Strayed is an American writer and podcast host. She wrote the novel Torch and the nonfiction books Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail, Tiny Beautiful Things, and Brave Enough. Her best-known book, Wild, tells the story of her 1995 hike on the Pacific Crest Trail. It became an international bestseller and was adapted into the 2014 film Wild, which received an Academy Award nomination. Her work often draws on personal experience and the search for repair, endurance, and self-understanding.