“When day-to-day living became too difficult for him, my father moved to a residential home near me and although he'd never had any sort of dementia test, he gradually became unable either to eat or go to the toilet on his own. Eventually the staff found him too difficult to manage.”

English choreographer and television personality

Dame Arlene Phillips is an English choreographer, theatre director, presenter, former television judge, talent scout, and dancer. She was born in 1943 and is known for her work in stage and television dance, with a career that has ranged from live performance to musical theatre and TV judging. She came to wider public attention as a judge on Strictly Come Dancing from 2004 to 2008 and on So You Think You Can Dance from 2010 to 2011. On stage, she choreographed musicals including Starlight Express, Grease, Saturday Night Fever, and Guys and Dolls, bringing a theatrical style that has made her a familiar figure in British entertainment.