“At night too, she puzzled the mystery of her desperate need of kindness. As other girls prayed for handsomeness in a lover, or for wealth, or for power, or for poetry, she had prayed fervently: let him be kind.”

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This reads as a quietly aching picture of wanting kindness more than admiration, status, or romance. It can be taken to mean that the deepest longing is not for glamour, but for gentleness that makes trust possible. It lands in the private moment when someone realizes they are less drawn to spectacle than to being treated well.

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About Anaïs Nin

French-born American diarist and writer

Anaïs Nin was a French-born American diarist, essayist, novelist, and writer of short stories and erotica. Born to Cuban parents in France, she later became an established author in the United States. She spent her early years in Spain and Cuba, then lived in Paris for about sixteen years before settling in the United States for the second half of her life. Her work is centered on diaries, fiction, and erotic writing, and she is known for moving between personal reflection and literary experimentation.

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Delta of Venus

1977

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A Spy in the House of Love

1978

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Little Birds

1998

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Incest

1992

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Henry and June

1986

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