“No woman ever hates a man for being in love with her, but many a woman hate a man for being a friend to her.”

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The quote suggests that romantic feelings are usually more welcome than friendship when a woman is involved. It implies that a man’s love may be accepted, but his role as a friend can be resented if it is not what she wants. The line frames attraction and friendship as being received very differently.

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Originally said in English.

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About Alexander Pope

English poet, translator, and satirist

Alexander Pope was an English poet, translator, and satirist of the Enlightenment era. He is considered one of the leading English poets of the early 18th century. A major figure in Augustan literature, Pope is best known for satirical and reflective verse. His work includes An Essay on Criticism, The Rape of the Lock, and The Dunciad, along with his translations of Homer.

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Books by Alexander Pope

An essay on man

2005

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The Rape of the Lock

1966

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Dunciad

2004

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