Suzanne Vega

“There are no rules in fights with girls. Just hurting.”

“I had some fears as a kid, but I was also relatively fearless. Maybe that's a result of living half the time in reality and the other half in fantasy.”

“It takes as much discipline to be a mother and a wife as it does to do anything else.”

“I loved the atmosphere of the dance studios - the wooden floors, the big mirrors, everyone dressed in pink or black tights, the musicians accompanying us - and the feeling of ritual the classes had.”

“I think people are sexy when they have a sense of humor, when they are smart, when they have some sense of style, when they are kind, when they express their own opinions, when they are creative, when they have character.”

“To me, a feminist belongs in the same category as a humanist or an advocate for human rights. I don't see why someone who's a feminist should be thought of differently.”

“I don't think gender is aesthetically defining for me.”

“Don't make a threat and then not do it.”

“How weird it was to drive streets I knew so well. What a different perspective.”

“Sometimes I listen to songs by very smart writers who assume that the world is a civil place with certain formalities that people follow, but I don't see things that way. My own experience tells me that life is not like that.”

“I wouldn't characterize my work, however, as directly political.”

“Writing is always personal in some way but not always in a direct way.”

“My intellect has always been more responsible than my emotions for how I respond to the world.”

“I still consider myself a feminist.”

“Of course, sometimes when you write personally, you are also writing about society, obliquely reflecting topical issues, but not in a way that people would expect you to or in the way that someone trying to make a point would.”

“You have to defend your honor. And your family.”

“Writing in other voices is almost Japanese in the sense that there's a certain formality there which allows me to sidestep the embarrassment of directly expressing to complete strangers the most intimate details of my life.”

“When I was pregnant, I felt filled with life, and I felt really happy. I ate well, and I slept well. I felt much more useful than I'd ever felt before.”

“In the end, my pursuit of the elusive New York State driver's license became about much more than a divorced woman's learning to drive for the first time.”

“Some girls are taught to be sexy.”