Sherry Argov

“Most women are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to themselves”

“Once you start laughing, you start healing.”

“He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him.”

“If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you'll create a void. Then to replace what you give up, you'll start to expect and need more from your partner.”

“Everybody has fallen down or been disappointed in love. Where you truly shine is when you get back up.”

“It is your attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.”

“Be an independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you in a limiting way.”

“Women are conditioned to give themselves away.”

“Truly powerful people don't explain why they want respect. They simply don't engage someone who doesn't give it to them.”

“If you're 30 years old, you have your whole life ahead of you.”

“If a man isn't being nice when you're out, all you have to do is remain polite and then go home early.”

“Men don't respond to words. What they respond to is "no contact".”

“The nice girl thinks she's giving up something to get something better in return. She gives up control over her own life. When the time comes for her to get what she expected, she winds up disappointed. In addition to being empty-handed, she's depleted.”

“The more independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.”

“When a man takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still right there.”

“When a man sees you are happy with him but you can be just as happy having nothing to do with him, that's when he won't want to leave your side.”

“If she is clearly right, find fault with her that has nothing to do with the incident, and use that.”

“That's the big picture, your happiness. And health. You should never care what a man thinks of you -- until he demonstrates to you that he cares about making you happy. If he isn't trying to make you happy, then send him back from "whence" he came because winning him over will have no benefit. At the end of the day, happines, joy...and yes...your emotional stability...those comprise the only measuring stick you really need to have.”

“Whenever you are too worried about someone else's approval, that person loses respect for you.”

“And remember, it's always her fault. That's your story and you're sticking to it.”