Rachel Lindsay

“Men know what they want when we help them figure it out. We make them think they figured it out by themselves. They really didn't. We know we did it, and that's a woman's job.”

“I'm looking for a guy who can make me laugh, who knows exactly what he wants, who's ambitious, ready to start a family, ready to get married.”

“I feel very indebted to my job. I support the loyalty that they've given me - it's very rare, especially in my profession, that you find people who are not just supportive of who you are as a person, but supportive of you finding love and your happiness.”

“I'm a black woman and I'm so happy to represent myself in that respect, but I don't want it to be something that defines me and my journey for love. I definitely don't mind talking about it and addressing it.”

“My friends mean everything to me, so if you want to me be my lover then you have to get along with my friends!”

“My dad is now a federal judge, but when he started off, he graduated from the top law school in Texas and couldn't get a job.”

“I spent much of my adult life focusing on my career and I take pride in my achievements in my field.”

“Up until I was 30 I really didn't date seriously outside of my race because I felt like society - not my parents, not my friends - society was telling me I had to pick a Black man.”

“I have a big personality, and people feed off that.”

“I can tell you my dream bachelorette party, but I cannot tell you my dream wedding.”

“I'm a trial attorney and I specialize in defense civil litigation. My firm represents businesses and organizations in whatever aspect they get sued, whether it's commercial litigation, to personal injury, liability, contracts, we litigate for them on their behalf.”

“I want four kids.”

“Life is hard so why does my relationship have to be hard at the same time?”

“Family's big to me.”

“I majored in sports management, and then I went to law school for sports law.”

“I learned it is important to be confident in what you have and drown out all of the outside noise. You can't be distracted by what everyone else is doing and how they are doing it.”

“I know there are going to be people who criticize what I do no matter what, but I'm just trying to not get caught up in it.”

“When you aren't private you open yourself to everyone's opinions about you.”

“I already know what people are going to say about me, and judge me for the decisions that I'm making, and I'm going to be the one who has to deal with that, and nobody else. And that's a lot.”

“I love a challenge. I do.”