A biography for Mary Wesleyhasn’t been written yet.
“Writing Part of the Scenery has been a very different experience. I have been reminded of people and events, real and imaginary which have been part of my life. This book is a celebration of the land which means so much to me.”
“Twenty years ago, I was living in a lovely cottage on the edge of Dartmoor but I couldn't afford to run a car.”
“I remember the evacuee children from towns and cities throwing stones at the farm animals. When we explained that if you did that you wouldn't have any milk, meat or eggs, they soon learned to respect the animals.”
“I have deliberately left Sylvester and Julia's appearances to the reader's imagination.”
“I never really know the title of a book until it's finished.”
“They may turn out to be a great disappointment, or perhaps they may be full of enchanting surprises.”
“I have a garden, and I'm passionately interested in young people.”
“We're all like children. We may think we grow up, but to me, being grown up is death, stopping thinking, trying to find out things, going on learning.”
“We all lie to each other, present some sort of front.”
“Women's courage is rather different from men's. The fact that women have to bring up children and look after husbands makes them braver at facing long-term issues, such as illness. Men are more immediately courageous. Lots of people are brave in battle.”
“That image of the countryside being a threatening place still exists. People continue to resist the challenge of learning about aspects of life they don't understand.”
“My father was a soldier and my mother was a great mover. She once counted up how many places she had lived in during the first 25 years of her marriage and it came to 20.”
“I always read that men don't like intelligent girls, but I've always found the reverse.”
“Rebecca is an example of how not to manage men. The rules of the game never change, it requires subtlety.”
“In my eighties, my best friends are in their fifties, and I have many friends at university. It keeps one young, and up with the vocabulary. That's terribly important, especially for a writer.”
“Imagination which comes into play in falling in love is different from any other. Certainly in my case, and I've fallen in love all my life, one imagines the person to be as you want them to be. They frequently turn out to be someone different, for better or worse.”
“It was pretty awful for us children because we never really knew the local children. Mother was keen for us to learn languages, so our travels took us to France and Italy, as well as the West Country.”
“People try much less hard to make a marriage work than they used to fifty years ago. Divorce is easier.”
“Of course risk-taking does not always pay off, but it's a lot of fun!”
“Unimaginative people are spared quite a lot. They're often much happier, because they don't go through all the variety of conceptions of the person they love.”