Busiswa Gqulu

““I try to speak with my friends and my family, I went into therapy, and I use the gym also as a way to listen to my own thoughts. I spend a lot of time talking to my son as well. He surprises me when he talks about me or when we are sharing thoughts, he also gives me a lot of enlightenment,””

““But now I’m happier, I’m thinner, I’m sexier. When my son was born I was at my heaviest and I wasn’t happy, I was performing because my songs were popping. The only thing that kept me going was my baby boy. Being a mom has elevated me. I want to be fit for myself.””

““I went through a lot since Kgosi came onto this earth. I know a lot of people have been saying I’m quiet. I haven’t been feeling like making happy music. I have been making music and thank God I can do that all the time,””

““I felt that I could eat whatever I want, however I wanted and whenever I wanted and it was fine because I just had a baby,””

““I don’t know if other mothers can relate but after pregnancy and giving birth, everything felt mushy. Everything was soft. It was like I couldn’t walk or move like the way I used to before,””

““I wanted to be active with him, I want to take walks with him, I want to ride a bike, I wanted him to watch less TV,””

““Working with Beyoncé really did change my entire mindset. I realised that she’s in her late 30s and she is still in the game,””

““I feel like life is good, I am truly blessed. I can’t complain.””

““I am the happiest I have ever been,” she tells me when I ask how she is.”

“"But now I'm happier, I'm thinner, I'm sexier. When my son was born, I was at my heaviest, and I wasn't happy, I was performing because my songs were popping. The only thing that kept me going was because...my baby boy. Being a mom has just elevated me ... I want to be fit for myself."”

“"I went through a lot since Kgosi came onto this earth. I know a lot of people have been saying that I'm quiet... I haven't been feeling like making happy music. I have been making music and thank God that I can do that all the time,"”